September 2007 Pearls of Encouragement for Christian
Working Moms
Welcome
Blog/Online Bible Study
Article – A New School Year
Final Thoughts
Welcome
Where did the summer go? It truly flew
by. Are you getting into a normal routine with school
starting back? Don’t you just “love”
the homework? We all ready had a project at our house
and I’m sure more are to come. I hope your pace
has not been too frantic. I have to remember that
God loves me and wants to know even the smallest details
of my life.
Many of you know I am a bookaholic (you
should see my home, books everywhere). Unfortunately
or fortunately that is true of everyone in my home.
I just started reading an excellent book called How
People Grow by Henry Cloud and John Townsend. I truly
enjoy all their books. They are Christian psychologists.
The book’s premise is that the Bible tells us
everything we need to know about personal growth.
They also punch a hole in the theory that we have
emotional growth and then spiritual growth. All growth
is spiritual. I couldn’t agree with them more.
We have talked before about how all of life is sacred.
If you are interested, you can find out more by clicking
here.
Blog/Online Bible Study
Check out several postings on the CWM
Blog. One is about potty training. Another is about
how to memorize scripture and you will see my true
confession. The CWM Blog is at http://christianworkingmoms.blogspot.com.
Lesson 7 is posted on the Online Bible
Study. The lesson is entitled,
“Do you love the giver more than the gift?”
The lesson is about Abraham’s sacrifice of Isaac.
Please post any questions or comments that you have.
You can fine the Online Bible Study at http://cwmbiblestudy.blogspot.com.
Article – A New School Year
I would imagine for most of us school
has started back. A new school year is usually exciting
and scary at the same time. Most children won’t
admit it, but they are ready to get back to school
and see their friends. As much as I love not having
a rigid schedule in the summer, I do miss the structure
of the school year. We get up later in the summer
and go to bed later as well.
When you think of a new School Year what are your
first thoughts? Back to school shopping for clothes
and school supplies. A big transition from elementary
to middle school, or to high school, even college.
A new teacher who you heard is strict or not strict
enough? Will my child have problems again this year?
There can often be lots of anxiety with a new school
year for parents as well as children.
Can I offer a few suggestions for your
back to school list? Remember whose children they
are. Yes they are our children, but they are God’s
children. He cares about them and loves them more
than we ever could. Pray for your children. Pray for
their academics, choice of friends, study habits,
and wisdom to make Godly choices. Pray for their teachers.
If their teachers are not Christians, pray that God
can use you to be an example to their teachers. Pray
for the administrators in your child’s school.
Pray for the safety of your child and all the children
at their school. Pray that your children will see
a Godly example in you, with how you handle school
difficulties or problems with your children. Begin
praying with other mothers for their children as well.
We don’t have to carry the burden alone. Above
all remember God is in control. I often have a difficult
time remembering that principle.
Also, I have learned the hard way to pray before confronting
or talking with teachers about a problem. When my
children come home with a problem with a friend or
teacher my first knee jerk reaction is to do something
about it now. I have learned to pray for God’s
guidance and to wait. Often, the HUGE problem isn’t
as big as I thought and sometimes the problem takes
care of itself. If I do need to confront the issue
then God gives me wisdom on what to say and how to
say it. God’s ways are always much better than
mine.
In closing, God is a mighty God and he cares about
our concerns. I often pray on the way to taking my
children to school. I pray when my children are having
difficulties with friends. God cares about everything
in our lives and He truly cares about our children.
My mother is a prayer warrior for my children and
myself. May we all become prayer warriors for our
children. Take your problems to Him and leave them
there. Remember God has loved your children since
he created the world. He loves them so much more than
we do.
Final Thoughts
Remember the importance of playing with
your children. We recently had a Uno marathon and
I’m pleased to share that I won!!! I’m
sure there will be a rematch.
Till next time,
Kimberly M. Chastain
Kimberly M. Chastain, MS, LMFT is
the Christian Working Mom Coach and a Licensed Marriage
and Family Therapist. She is the author of 2 ebooks
and an online Bible study. You can find more information
at
www.christianworkingmom.com.
For a free, initial coaching session send an email
to
free@kimberlychastain.com.