Pearls of Encouragement for Christian
Working Moms
June 2007
Welcome
Witnessing Tool
Blog/Online Bible Study
Article – Be Careful What You Pray For
Final Thoughts
Welcome
Hello everyone. I hope you are having
a good summer, depending on where you live. I have
had a few exciting days recently. Some mice decided
they like my office best of all where I work. I am
not nearly as fond of them as they are of my office.
I think all my new “friends” have gone
on to mouse heaven (or wherever they go) and I’m
much happier. I still have a tendency to jump if anything
is close to me. I’m truly amazed how something
so small can really turn your life upside down. Welcome
to all the new CWM’s that have joined us each
week. You would not believe that women from all over
the world share your same concerns and burdens.
Many of you have asked about family
worship or devotion tools. Do you find it difficult
to memorize scripture? I still remember scripture
I learned as a child, especially if the verse was
put to a song. There are now scripture music CD’s.
You can listen to the CD’s with your children
while you are in the car and everyone can learn scripture
together. To find out more, click
here.
Witnessing Tool
Do you sometimes find it difficult to
share your faith? Do you often get tongue tied? My
family has found a great website called www.pocketpower.org.
You can sign up to receive free (yes free) 30 gospels
of John each month to give out to neighbors, co-workers,
the checkout person at the store, your waitress, etc.
They have several different covers and translations.
So, you can pick out one that fits the person. They
also have Spanish and Chinese translations. The plan
of salvation is inside the Gospel of John and people
can sign up for a free email course when they become
a Christian. My children have really gotten into this
and will hand them out to people when we check out.
We have had few people refuse. There is a wonderful
story behind how the whole ministry started. I will
give you a hint, it involves chocolate. We all love
chocolate don’t we? Go to the website to find
out the whole story. If you do sign up, please use
one of the following referral numbers 244755 or 244836.
Those are my children’s numbers. If they get
so many people to sign up they get a free gift. No
pressure. Remember we are only responsible to share
the gospel and leave the results to God. So, begin
planting some seeds.
Blog/Online Bible Study
We recently had a question posted from
a CWM in Tasmania wanting to know how you deal with
being the only CWM in your church. There is also a
question posted now about if you have any end of the
school year traditions. You can find the CWM blog
at http://christianworkingmoms.blogspot.com.
The Online Bible Study now has 5 lessons
posted. Please feel free to post your answers to the
questions. You can find the online Bible Study at
http://kimberlychastain.com/discussCWMU.
Article – Be Careful What
You Pray For
What is your prayer life like? Do you
find it hard to pray? Do find it hard to find time
to pray? When you do pray do you have specific things
you are praying for and you ask God to answer your
prayer in a specific way? Basically, do you give your
wish list to God and pray that he answers your prayers
your way.
Recently, I learned that we need to
be careful what we pray for and how we pray. We only
need to look back to the children of Israel in the
Old Testament. I would encourage you to read 1 Samuel
starting in chapter 8 and going through chapter 12.
The people of Israel started whining and complaining
to Samuel that they wanted a King like everybody else.
They saw all the other countries had a King and they
wanted one to. Samuel was quick to tell them they
were wrong and that God was their king and they were
rejecting him. He also said you don’t realize
what an earthly king would require. You will lose
some of your children to serve in the palace and army.
A portion of your crops will go to the King. The people
continue to plead for a King and Samuel spoke to God.
God said, “I will give them what they asked,
but they have forsaken me. God then said warn them
what will happen and tell them the procedure.”
If you continue to read 1 Samuel you will see many
times where Israel did not do well under an earthly
king. Often they were defeated and in 1 Samuel 15
God says he regretted ever making Saul king due to
his disobedience.
Why am I sharing this important story
from the Old Testament with you? We often think we
know what is best for us. Israel wanted a king to
be like everyone else and they denied God as their
King. When I read this story it makes me stop in my
tracks and realize that what God wants for my life
is the best and I should follow what he wants and
not what I want. God ended up giving the people of
Israel what they wanted even though it wasn’t
best for them. He allowed them to give into their
selfish desires.
We need to bring our prayer requests
to God and say not my will but yours God. Often, we
say that without thinking and I hate to say often
as a PS to the end of our prayer. We truly need to
say God I know you know what is best, you see and
hold my future in your hands. Please show me what
to do and how to handle a particular situation. Maybe
you are desperately praying to be a stay at home Mom
or change jobs. Could it be that God has you exactly
where he wants you in order to glorify him and accomplish
his purpose?
I would challenge us to start praying
God make my desires line up with your desires. If
you have a desire to stay home asked God if that is
what He wants. If not, that he will take that desire
away from you. If you are working at a job you truly
can’t stand ask God for direction to leave or
stay? If it is to stay then how can God help you grow
and learn in that situation?
In conclusion, we do need to be careful
what we pray for. The people of Israel wanted an earthly
king and they paid dearly for their choice. Some paid
with their lives or their children’s lives.
We need to learn from this story in the Old Testament
that God will not share his glory or authority. He
knows what is best for us and we have to trust that
his ways are best and not our own.
Final Thoughts
I have to admit I was a chicken when
it came to my mouse problem at work. I didn’t
scream, but I definitely decided it was a man’s
job to take care of the issue. So, we need to be thankful
for men in our lives especially when they kill mice
for us.
Till next time,
Kimberly M. Chastain
Kimberly M. Chastain, MS, LMFT is
the Christian Working Mom Coach and a Licensed Marriage
and Family Therapist. She is the author of 2 ebooks
and an online Bible study. You can find more information
at
www.christianworkingmom.com.
For a free, initial coaching session send an email
to
free@kimberlychastain.com.